Life Is Not Fair Or Forgiving, But That Is No Excuse!

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In my last blog I wrote about integrity being the cornerstone of real leadership and my disdain for how easily I see very visible people betray integrity for real bad reasons. That blog and several comments that I received on the blog prompted me to follow-up with these thoughts. As I shared in the last blog, when integrity is compromised far too many folks want quick forgiveness and a second chance because they just “made a mistake.” In fact, how many times have you heard someone say when they are dealt the consequences of their actions that “life is just not fair!”

I have a really close friend who says frequently that life is not fair and that a “fair” is something that comes to town once a year! What she really means is that we all too often see life as we expect it to be and the really funny thing is that leaders who make really bad decisions expect others to just overlook it, forgive and move on. These leaders have no real understanding that life is not just a series of all your expectations being delivered to you despite the impact that it has on others, a business and the inevitable future of all involved including yourself. So, life is not fair. Life is not fair because far too many times our expectations and our actions are not fair or even in line with the expectations that we should have for ourselves, our business or the business team.

Also, life is not always fair even for those who do the right things, but that is no excuse for not continuing to work hard and doing the right thing. Life, as I have heard on many occasions, will throw many curveballs at us. Those curveballs or things that we were not prepared for, is just a part of our growth and development as both leaders and human beings. People will see us and judge us not on how fair something was that happened to us but rather how well we handled those difficulties. Business as well as life can be very tough and unforgiving at times but that is simply no excuse for not be a strong leader whose integrity and conviction to doing the right thing can be counted on by all those around that leader. Real Transformational Leadership is about integrity with no compromise or excuses!


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